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The ABCs of Being A Positive Mom

When I shared the ABCs of Positive Parenting, many of you asked me to make a printable so you could frame it, laminate it, or display it on your fridge. Well, guess what? I listened… and I went to work and created a companion for our day to day journey to be the Positive Mom we aspire and strive to be.

So now you can PIN the ABCs of being a Positive Mom below and download HERE  – and you don’t need to sign up or subscribe (although you can if you want to he he – wink).

The ABCs of A Positive MOM - by Elayna Fernandez ~ The Positive MOM - with FREE PRINTABLE!

And here’s a slightly longer version that gives context to the printable and pin above.

The ABCs of Positive Parenting by Elayna Fernandez The Positive MOMAffection ~ You cannot possibly say “I love you” too much!

The ABCs of Positive Parenting by Elayna Fernandez The Positive MOM Beliefs ~ Practice healthy beliefs that serve both of you and the greater good.

The ABCs of Positive Parenting by Elayna Fernandez The Positive MOM Consistency ~ Let your YES be your YES and your NO be your NO.

The ABCs of Positive Parenting by Elayna Fernandez The Positive MOM Discipline ~ Teach them we are “punished by our sins” and not for them.

The ABCs of Positive Parenting by Elayna Fernandez The Positive MOM Example ~ “BE the change you want to see in your child!”

The ABCs of Positive Parenting by Elayna Fernandez The Positive MOM Flexibility ~ Extend patience, compassion, and forgiveness as needed.

The ABCs of Positive Parenting by Elayna Fernandez The Positive MOMGratitude ~ Thank your children. Thank other people. Thank God. Be beyond polite and really mean it.

The ABCs of Positive Parenting by Elayna Fernandez The Positive MOM Healthy Habits ~ If you want your children to do or be something, do it or be it first…and consistently.

The ABCs of Positive Parenting by Elayna Fernandez The Positive MOM I-messages ~ Practice the art of personal responsibility and own up to our feelings, beliefs, thoughts, and actions.

The ABCs of Positive Parenting by Elayna Fernandez The Positive MOM Joy ~ The best gift you can ever give the ones you love is a happier you.

The ABCs of Positive Parenting by Elayna Fernandez The Positive MOM Kindness ~ A positive parent is supportive and makes others feel important, cared for, and appreciated.

The ABCs of Positive Parenting by Elayna Fernandez The Positive MOMLetting Go ~ Let go of aspiring for perfection, in both yourself and others.

The ABCs of Positive Parenting by Elayna Fernandez The Positive MOM Mindfulness ~ Live in the present moment, loving what is, without judgement.

The ABCs of Positive Parenting by Elayna Fernandez The Positive MOMNurturing ~ Learn about them as individuals and nurture who they are.

The ABCs of Positive Parenting by Elayna Fernandez The Positive MOM Openness ~ Honest two-way communication, without judgment, to learn and to understand.

The ABCs of Positive Parenting by Elayna Fernandez The Positive MOMPartnership ~ Respect, trust, common values, defined roles, clear expectations, impeccable communication.

The ABCs of Positive Parenting by Elayna Fernandez The Positive MOMQuiet Time ~ Replenish your patience reserve. You cannot share what you don’t have!

The ABCs of Positive Parenting by Elayna Fernandez The Positive MOM Resilience ~ Teaching life skills: tough times don’t last, but tough people do!

The ABCs of Positive Parenting by Elayna Fernandez The Positive MOMSafety ~ Learn effective ways to help children feel safe physically, mentally, and emotionally.

The ABCs of Positive Parenting by Elayna Fernandez The Positive MOM Togetherness ~ To a child, love spells T-I-M-E. Give them your undivided one-on-one focus and attention.

The ABCs of Positive Parenting by Elayna Fernandez The Positive MOM Uncritical Words ~ Focus on the “problem,” not the person; on progress, not results; forward, not backwards.

The ABCs of Positive Parenting by Elayna Fernandez The Positive MOMVulnerable ~ It’s okay to cry, to admit you don’t have it all together, and to seek guidance or ask for help.

The ABCs of Positive Parenting by Elayna Fernandez The Positive MOMWings ~ Teach principles to help them thrive, find joy and success, and let them set their own terms.

The ABCs of Positive Parenting by Elayna Fernandez The Positive MOMXO ~ Be eXtraOrdinary. Do not conform to what others think, feel, or believe you ought to do.

The ABCs of Positive Parenting by Elayna Fernandez The Positive MOMYes! ~ Say YES more often, say yes to their dreams, and carpe diem … they’ll only have one childhood.

The ABCs of Positive Parenting by Elayna Fernandez The Positive MOMZeal~ Learn to radiate passion, power, and positivity. Be a source of love and light… and leave a legacy!

Enjoy your free printable. Do you find it useful? What are your thoughts? I love hearing from you and learning from you. I look forward to your feedback in the comment box below. I am so grateful!

[ela]

Elizabeth

Wednesday 15th of April 2015

Hi, I really love this post! Thank you! Favorite's letters and meanings :

1)Example ~ “BE the change you want to see in your child!” Your child need to be what he/she can do, how it is the world and the dangerous. Only you can be the tool to guide and then walk alone knows. 2)Gratitude ~ Thank your children. Thank other people. Thank God. Be beyond polite and really mean it. YES! YES! YES! First thank God! And them thank everybody for help and the rest people who don't help but teach you and make you grow! 3)Togetherness ~ To a child, love spells T-I-M-E. Give them your undivided one-on-one focus and attention. It's the most important to raise a good guy!

Hola! Me encanta este post. Mis letras y significados favoritos son:

1)E-Ejemplo: Como un dicho "predica con el ejemplo" 2)G-GRATITUD: Primero a Dios y luego al resto del mundo. A tu hij@ por convertirte en madre y a las personas que te ayudan a serlo junto con las que no ayudan que te enseñan a crecer. 3)T-Tiempo JUNTOS(UNION): Para darle al mundo un hij@ feliz, seguro de si mismo y confiado, pasa tiempo con el maximo tiempo posible. No te arrepentiras!

Paula Schuck

Saturday 11th of April 2015

I love this! I especially love the "vulnerable", can never forget to spend a little bit of time on yourself.

Melissa Vera

Thursday 9th of April 2015

What a great list and a great reminder for all parents. Thanks.

Anne

Thursday 9th of April 2015

I love that! There is way too much negativity in this world .... it is important to maintain a positive mindset and approach in parenting especially.

ourfamilyworld

Thursday 9th of April 2015

What a great reminder. It is important to be positive around you.