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Learn How To Write Your Personal Manifesto

Socrates once declared: “The unexamined life is not worth living.” With all the responsibilities and activities we juggle as moms, just how often do we examine our lives?

Self-exploration is something I am deeply passionate about. I guide, coach, and mentor moms all over the world through the self-discovery process, so they can feel that life is worth living – a daring adventure, a sacred experience they truly love.

Taking time for yourself as a mom, especially for the purposes of self-awareness, is a choice that takes courage, so if you are already doing this, I’m your biggest fan.

In motherhood, it is easy to operate in autopilot and just run through the motions of the day.

Life becomes a rut, where the only excitement comes from putting out a big fire here and there on a given day.

When was the last time you had a date with your intuition and interviewed the depth of your soul?

If it’s been a while, it may be time to take a deep dive into who you truly are as a timeless, divine being with endless potential and equipped with powerful mental faculties you can always use — who you’ve always have been and who you’re meant to be.

Even though I’ve spent countless hours in the journey of self-awareness, I’ve found that the more I seek, the more there is to learn when it comes to understanding my true identity.

The more I go “there,” the more inspired I am to share my stories, and what I come to know about my authentic Self with the world, dropping the fake masks of normalcy, conformity, and perfection.

As a coach, and a mother of daughters, much of my day involves asking hard, yet essential, questions to uncover insights that may never surface otherwise.

Questions to get started with your Manifesto

Let’s think about a few basic ones to get your wheels spinning:

What is your grandest dream?
What are your core values?
What brings you joy and makes you come alive?
What makes you feel outraged or breaks your heart?
What are your longings?
What are your inner motivations?
What are you most passionate about?
What do you stand for?
What would you like your legacy to be?
What gives your life purpose and meaning?
How do you want to be remembered?
What do you regret?
What are you willing or not  to do to achieve those accomplishments?
What are your strengths, your skills, your talents?
What are your standards?
What life experiences have shaped you and what lessons do you want to share?
Which aspects of your personal story are you afraid of revealing or admitting?

I could ask you these type of questions all day long, but here’s the most important one: as you went through the list, did you feel you knew the answer to these questions with certainty and confident that you could articulate the answer quickly and with exactness?

If your answer is “YES,” I am impressed and I encourage you to continue on that path.

If your answer is “NO,” I have to say “congratulations!” because you now have the opportunity to check in and find exciting answers within you.

As you unlock your soul’s truth, you will be able to understand what doesn’t matter, what does, and how much.

You will be empowered to evaluate what “opportunities” you say YES to (and say NO more often), you will and you will be able to make more conscious and intentional choices in your life. 

A great way to remember your life principles, intentions, and core values is to create a personal manifesto.

The Holstee Manifesto

You’re probably familiar with this concept through The Holstee Manifesto, or if you’re around my age, through the 1999 song Everybody’s Free (To Wear Sunscreen).

Writing a personal manifesto is as if you were writing your own “I Have a Dream Speech.”

THIS IS YOUR LIFE.
Do what you LOVE and do it OFTEN.
If you don’t like something, CHANGE IT.
If you don’t like your job, QUIT.
If you don’t have enough time, QUIT WATCHING TV.
If you are looking for the love of your life, STOP.
They will be waiting for you when you START DOING THINGS YOU LOVE.
STOP OVER ANALYZING. LIFE IS SIMPLE.
All emotions are beautiful.
When you eat, APPRECIATE EVERY LAST BITE.
Open your MIND, ARMS, and HEART to New Things and People,
We are united in our DIFFERENCES.
Ask the NEXT PERSON you see what their PASSION is,
and SHARE your INSPIRING DREAM with them.
TRAVEL OFTEN; getting lost will help you FIND YOURSELF.
Some OPPORTUNITIES only come once, SEIZE THEM.
Life is about the PEOPLE you meet and the things you CREATE WITH THEM.
So go out and START CREATING.
LIVE YOUR DREAM AND WEAR YOUR PASSION.
LIFE IS SHORT.

The Basics on Manifestos

The word manifesto traces its roots to the Latin manifestum, which means to clearly reveal, to make real.

A personal manifesto is a written declaration or statement of your ideals, views, and intentions. It’s your own personal creed or owner’s manual, providing inspiration, strength, and direction when you need to remember who you are and how your authentic Self truly operates.

Having a written manifesto is like having access to your soul in a minute’s notice, when you feel you don’t have the time or the energy to even breathe. I know you feel me on this one!

Developing your manifesto may take some time, and you are worth that time investment.

While there’s no right or wrong way or firm rules about writing a manifesto, these tips may keep you away from being stuck in overthinking.

Tips on Developing Your Own Manifesto

the Positive Mom arrow Read other manifestos and see what resonates with you – and what doesn’t.

Take notes of what comes up for you.

After you are done, you must take off your researcher hat, so you can consult your intuition.

It is important that your personal manifesto feels “yours” and it is crafted in a way that reflects your personal style.

the Positive Mom arrow Write about each area of life that is important to you and then consolidate it all into one single manifesto.

Neuroscience teaches us that 3 may just be the magic number of items you can handle at one time (but not at the same time!)

the Positive Mom arrow Write it down with pen and paper, and revisit your draft a few times before you type it out. 

I also recommend designing a display, like you do with a vision board, so you can be an active participant in its creation.

the Positive Mom arrow To make your manifesto more powerful, use language that is positive, inspiring, specific, and clear (free of ambiguity).

For example, you may want to write “I will” versus “I want” and avoid words like “thing” and “something.”

To make your manifesto compelling, use feeling words that evoke powerful feelings when you (or others) read it. Check out my list of positive words and the list of words you must avoid!

Use these personal manifesto prompts to get you started:

I love… (new beliefs about your identity, character, and potential)
I believe that I… (new beliefs about your identity, character, and potential)
I believe that everyone… (rights or empowering beliefs about others)
I am committed to… (what you intend to create and willing to do or be to achieve it)
I want to live in a world where… (the type of world you envision and wish to create)
I give myself permission to…(perhaps do, feel, be, have, something that caused you fear)
Here’s what I know for sure… (Your very own Oprah-styled stances on a topic)

Are you excited to examine your life journey, discover your true self and get closer toward your purpose?

Will you write your personal manifesto? You manifesto is a living document that will guide you as you navigate toward your Higher Self and will evolve as you do. Share your thoughts with us, my dear!

PS: If you’re writing a manifesto for your blog or for your business, you may want to end with a specific invitation to tell the reader what to do next.

Elayna is a homeschool educator, single mom of 4, founder of the Positive MOM Community, award-winning Storyteller, Story Strategist, and Student of Pain. She’s a bestselling author, internationally acclaimed keynote speaker, and 3x TEDx speaker. To receive a gift from Elayna, click HERE.

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Elisha Fernandez

Saturday 10th of August 2019

I absolutely love the concept of having a date with your intuition. Getting clear on your purpose through a written manifesto sounds very powerful. I am looking forward to making my own and displaying it in a spot in my home.

Patty Moliterno

Saturday 10th of August 2019

Elayna: I love how you are always challenging your readers to think, grow, and become who they were meant to be. I have written a personal manifesto. It intend to revisit this exercise yearly.

Rebecca Bryant

Friday 9th of August 2019

This is very soul searching. To write my own personal manifesto I will need to tap into my inner soul to really pull out what is true.

Yeimi Santana

Sunday 25th of June 2017

Before I met you, I never thought about having my own manifesto, but it sounds like a great way to self-discovery and I am willing to take the leap.

LaToyia Dennis

Saturday 24th of June 2017

I'm on a journey of becoming more self aware. I love this! I have to do this.