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Do What You Love and Live With Passion

Have you ever been in a situation in your life that isn’t in alignment with who you are, and who you want to be? Back in 2005, I decided to become a mompreneur and launch my home-based business because even though I was grateful for the blessing of being employed, I felt stuck and disconnected and like my job wasn’t giving me anything more than money.

Money is a very important area of life, especially when you bring in the only income as a single mom; however, I decided that I needed to feel successful in all the areas of my life, and go from BLAH to BOLD, living a passionate, joyful, fulfilling life.

As you may have guessed, it was a painfully long process and it required requires tremendous effort, courage, and tenacity. After all the heartaches, failures, and mistakes, I learned many lessons and identified five steps required to live with passion, purpose, and intention.

5 steps to living with passion by Elayna Fernandez ~ The Positive MOM

Discover Your Passions. ~ I am a very passionate person and I thought I knew exactly what my passions were. The truth is, many of our passions are dormant because of fear, negative self-talk, or doubt. Other things that we call passions are simply activities we are skilled at, interests, or hobbies. While I don’t believe we need to stick to just one passion, I do think that not everything we enjoy doing is one of our passions. Your passions are meaningful because they are clues to our purpose.

Live Your Passions. ~ When we know something is part of our life blueprint, we must become more proactive and intentional in making it happen in the now… not “Someday.” When I took The Passion Test, I found out that “enjoying a loving and satisfying relationship with my eternal companion” is my #3 passion. I made a conscious choice to let go of the denial that hid the fear of being in a relationship again [and the rest is history lol] , and to be open and willing to take the steps that felt right toward what my soul needs. Living our passions means being committed to align everything we do with our deepest desires.

Balance Your Passions. ~ Even when we choose our top 5 passions, there are so many life demands and daily distractions that it can become really difficult to stay balanced and the mommy guilt starts to strike. My definition of balance is that “it’s not about having it all, it’s about enjoying all that matters.” With that in mind, as moms, we must forsake perfectionism and rather be in constant check to make sure we set boundaries, say no more often, so we don’t get too off track and stay on the path that leads to our ultimate happiness. Your ability to be a master of your time, energy, and resources will determine your ability influence those you love.

Monetize Your Passions. ~ Many of us learn disempowering beliefs about money growing up, and it may take a breakthrough to shift to a millionaire mom mindset and realize that money is a blessing that contributes to a passionate life! Being able to turn your passions into your paycheck and amassing wealth are requirement to living passionately because your God-given gift is intimately linked to your passions and it is meant to give you abundantly. Your income will be the foundation for your impact.

Radiate Your Passions. ~ I believe we were born to shine our light so bright that we inspire others to do the same. Whether the impact you want to make is inspiration, monetary aid, or the gift of your time, you cannot give what you don’t have. And when you have little, you give little ~ and when you give more than you can comfortably give, you can become resentful. Radiating your passions is about giving back, and though I am convinced that we can pay it forward from where we are and from what we have, I included it as the last step because as you grow in awareness and abundance, you can make a bigger difference in the lives of others.

Are you ready to start living a life filled with passion?

If you’re struggling in the passion department, take a look at these five steps and spend time in prayer, meditation, and journaling. Start taking simple actions that show commitment to living happy, fulfilled, and satisfied in life. When God sees what you are working on, He will see what you are waiting on!

Start identifying your passions, decide the life you want to live and do what you love every single day, choose to align with your purpose, and declare the way you want to change the world in a positive way. Let God bless your path toward unlocking your divine destiny.

What are some of YOUR passions?

PS- If you need help discovering your life’s purpose, you could benefit from my limited discounted offer of The Passion Test. I’d love for you to take advantage of it. To learn more about how you can design your life blueprint in an intentional way, click here.


Do What You Love and Live With Passion - NACWE.org - National Association of Christian Women Entrepreneurs

Tuesday 31st of March 2015

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Paula schuck

Thursday 26th of March 2015

I have more than enough passion that is not my problem. I love what I do you always loved writing I started out thinking I'd be an accountant to make money. And then I realize my heart was not in that at all and I switched to writing in from the moment I switched to writing and university that was when everything started to finally line up. Pursuing my passion has led to lots of opportunity and lots of income so I'm very happy with how I live my life.

Elayna Fernandez ~ The Positive MOM

Monday 30th of March 2015

Paula, I am so happy you are now pursuing your passion. Many of us learn the hard way, so that's why I believe we have a sacred responsibility to pay it forward and let the youth know they can follow their own path.

alice chase

Wednesday 25th of March 2015

Being propelled by your passions are so important. It will give you drive when you've run out of steam.

Elayna Fernandez ~ The Positive MOM

Monday 30th of March 2015

Alice, I love the point you make. It's so easy to give up when your why is not strong enough.

Ashley Gill

Wednesday 25th of March 2015

I have a chronic problem of zeroing in on one passion and forgetting everything else. I have the hardest time letting go of things and doing more than one. This is a great post for me to open my eyes a little.

Elayna Fernandez ~ The Positive MOM

Monday 30th of March 2015

I'm glad it helped, Ashley. It's all about balance - and that's why we're all still learning from each other.

Chrissy Mazzocchi

Tuesday 24th of March 2015

This is such a positive and powerful post! I'll keep all of these in mind.

Elayna Fernandez ~ The Positive MOM

Monday 30th of March 2015

Thank you, Chrissy. What a sweet comment!